In Jacksonville, most judges rely heavily on custody evaluations to determine who should get primary custody of the children. Therefore, it is important to prepare for a child custody evaluation properly.
A typical custody evaluation usually includes interview with the parents and children as well as other people in their lives – grandparents, nannies, teachers, etc. The evaluator will also observe how both parents interact with their children, and may order psychological testing as well.
Some tips for preparing for a custody evaluation:
• Treat the evaluation like a job interview. Dress appropriately, be on time, listen and react calmly and be respectful.
• Come prepared. Organize any documents that have been requested by the evaluator or that you feel are important. Make a list of your concerns so you can communicate them well.
• Answer questions directly and ask for clarification if there is a question you do not understand.
• Do not disparage the other parent.
• Help children understand the process, but do not coach them.
• Respond promptly for requests for more documentation or information.