Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
In Florida divorce cases involving children, the parents are required to attend a DCF approved parenting class to help them learn ways of talking with their children and each other about divorce, timesharing and other issues. In North Florida courts, like Jacksonville, the family law judges require the same course be completed in paternity cases as well.
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
Holiday Visitation can be challenging when going through a divorce and sometimes even after the divorce is over. Emotions are often heightened during a holiday so rational negotiations can be a challenge. If necessary, you may seek help from a third party such as a mediator or lawyer to reach an amicable resolution.
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
In your Florida divorce or paternity case, the court allows the use of instant messaging (IM). Often, couples couples communicate through the internet using instant messaging (IM) and then wonder if their conversation can be used against the the other party in a divorce or paternity case. The court does allow the use of this communication, but it is difficult to get it admitted to court unless it can be shown to be a true copy of the conversation.
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
Child time-sharing plans (visitation plans) are applied differently throughout Florida. Some courts have taken the time-sharing law that replaced visitation in 2007, to mean that children should spend equal times with each parent. In Jacksonville and the northeast Florida region, the courts often try to steer away from a 50/50 time-sharing plan because it is not felt to be in the best interest of the children. However, many central and south Florida courts have interpreted the language to mean that the parents should have equal time. The Florida Supreme court rendered an opinion on the statute saying that the measure is still best interest of the children and the starting point is not intended to be a 50/50 visitation split. So, what if you have 50/50 time-sharing and as the kids grow older you realize that they are nor doing as well on such a schedule?
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
In a Florida divorce or paternity case establishing a parenting and time-sharing are vital in dealing with visitation issues. However, if you live out-of-state during the divorce or paternity case, then the time-sharing plan may depend on your situation. For example, if you are in a paternity case and just found out that you have a child, then a judge may not require the child to simply get on a plane for you to see your child. What may happen is that you transition into a time-sharing plan where the child eventually will visit you at your home. In the meantime, you may be required to come to Florida to establish a relationship with the child so that the time-sharing can then be scheduled at your own home. If you already have a relationship established with the children, then other factors will be how far you live; transportation abilities; school schedules; etc. The Judge will look at these factors to help establish the best time-sharing schedule for all parties, including the child.
If you are in Jacksonville, Florida, then you may be asked if you are interested in what were previously 4th Judicial Circuit Long Distance Guidelines. They basically separate out holidays, summer vacation and three day weekends so that the long distance visits are lucrative for the parent and child to share bonding time.
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
Summer visitation can be a challenge for those recently divorced or having gone through a paternity case. Any case involving children has to have a time-sharing plan, which establishes the visitation schedule for the children with each parent. Often, school holidays are divided up, including summer vacation. For those getting use to the plan, summer can be a little difficult to understand. First, it is important to refer to your time-sharing plan and calendar the time. If you live in Jacksonville, Florida or surrounding areas, then you may have what are considered guideline plans. This plan should give a start date for the parent that is meant to have the first half of summer with the children. When that parent is seeing the children the first half, the other parent would have alternating weekends. In essence, what happens is that the normal schedule is simply transferred to the other parent during that time. However, it is also important to see if you have both been given actual vacation time, which is often two weeks of uninterrupted time. Any of these dates and calendaring should be done with both parents so as to avoid confusion down the road.
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
As a Jacksonville, Florida lawyer working in family law I am often asked what a family law attorney does. Basically, family law consists of handling divorces, child support cases, paternity cases, visitation or time-sharing matters, adoptions and the like. A divorce lawyer is just a more specific way of saying the same thing as, “I handle family law cases.” When hiring an attorney to handle your divorce case or related matters, then looking for a family law attorney versus a divorce attorney or lawyer may broaden the scope in your search and better fit your needs.
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
Florida law holds that a short-term marriage is one that lasts for 7 or less years in accordance with Florida Statute 61.08(4). If a marriage is for less than seven (7) years, then the court may find that certain provisions of equitable distribution of assets do not apply, as in a recent Florida case Lacoste v. Lacoste, 36 FLW D784 (Fla. 1st DCA April 14, 2011).
Written By: Lenorae C. Atter, Attorney
Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A.
Domestic violence in marriage can be a major cause for divorce and knowing you are safe is key to the livelihood of you and your children. If you fear abuse or other harm from your spouse, you should apply for a domestic violence injunction with the court. In addition, in going through a divorce with someone that is violent, you should let your attorney know and the judge know that you are in fear for your safety in the presence of your spouse. If the judge is aware of the danger, then the judge can take the proper steps in insuring your safety while you are going through divorce hearings where you and your spouse are in the same room. The judge can have a bailiff sit-in on the proceedings to restrain the spouse if that spouse becomes violent.
Paternity cases in Florida often require two actions to be taken, such as follows:
1. A Petition to Establish Paternity: Often filed by the mother against the father, so it only requests child support the majority of the time.
2. A Counter-Petition to Establish Paternity and a Time-Sharing/Parenting Plan. This is generally filed by the father to guarantee that he has visitation with the child, which is referred to as a time-sharing plan in Florida.
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